Everyone must have been familiar with the traditional ancestors ceremonies, which were accompanied by fruit platters, betel nut, crimson ao dai, double happiness font, and a plethora of laborious rituals without titles.
But, in reality, we define the framework, and there is no "law" that must be followed on the big day: "I would like the caption of the word 'Harmony' to appear on the ceremony background since it is also a criterion for keeping family relationships and what I want to impart to my daughter and my future son-in-law", the bride's father remarked. As a result, instead of the common word "Double Happiness," the word "Harmony" appeared.
Instead of an older and more powerful uncle in the groom's family, Kevin chose aunt Nga as the patriarch to represent the family. Because Kevin's family has been living overseas for so long, only Aunt Nga is fluent in the language and knows the majority of the customs. So, for the first time in DWP Team's ten years of service, a female patriarch led the entire ancestors ceremony.
Furthermore, the ring exchange ceremony did not take place that morning, not because the bride and groom removed it, but because those gorgeous rings were left at home. However, everyone laughed and joyously passed by and saving this sacred practise for the later dinner party at the hotel. The most important aspect of the ceremony is the environment, as well as the feelings that people have for one another, it doesn't matter if one or two rituals are added or removed.
The air is scorching, but the two families' joy and laughing seem to eradicate any exhaustion, leaving only pleasant memories of the ancestors ritual. Although it did not adhere to any principles, it was permeated with "Vietnamese style".
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