Staying Grounded on Your Big Day: Small but Mighty Tips for Brides (Part 2)

A big part of my job is spending time alongside brides on their wedding day. And throughout the day, I’ve witnessed every kind of emotion, the nervous anticipation right before walking down the aisle, the joyful excitement of knowing your partner is waiting at the end, and everything in between. But no matter how overwhelming it all feels, it is possible to stay calm, centered, and truly present throughout your wedding day. Here are a few small but powerful ways to help you do just that

1. Start the morning in a way that feels right for you

There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to the “perfect” wedding morning. For some brides, it means starting the day slowly, maybe with just a couple of close friends or family around, a warm cup of coffee in hand, and a calm, quiet vibe.

Others might feel most energized when surrounded by their bridal squad - music playing, everyone getting ready together, sharing laughter (and maybe a few mimosas).

However you choose to start the day, the most important thing is that it aligns with your energy. Because how you begin the morning can really shape how you feel throughout the rest of the day.

2. Take a breath before the walk down the aisle

One of my favorite moments in every wedding is that quiet pause just before the bride walks down the aisle. I always take a second to gently remind her to stop - breathe and soak it all in.

It’s just a few seconds, but it’s everything. That simple pause helps her feel grounded and present before stepping into one of the most emotional moments of her life.

And then, as the doors open and her eyes meet her partner’s… the nerves melt away, replaced by something even deeper: joy, love, and the feeling of “this is it.”

3. Carve out a little time just for the two of you

Weddings are full of people, timelines, and nonstop moments - smiling, chatting, hugging, posing for photos. It’s easy to get swept up in it all.

That’s why I always suggest finding a small pocket of time where it’s just the two of you. It doesn’t have to be anything elaborate. Maybe it’s stepping away together for a few quiet minutes before dinner, or slipping behind the scenes between events.

Whatever it is, use that time to look at each other, hold hands, and quietly remind yourselves: We just started a brand new chapter, together. Let your heart slow down and reconnect with the reason behind all the celebration.

4. Hire a wedding day coordinator (trust me on this one)

Okay, I might be a little biased  but having a dedicated wedding day coordinator really does make a world of difference.

Yes, family and friends can help out with certain tasks, and their support is always appreciated. But there’s a unique peace of mind that comes with having a professional handle all the moving parts - the logistics, the questions, the unexpected hiccups.

It allows you to truly let go, be in the moment, and enjoy your day as it unfolds without worrying about what’s going on behind the scenes.

If you need support or expert advice while planning your big day, December Wedding Planner is here for you. With years of experience and deep industry know-how, we’re dedicated to helping you create a wedding that is personal, polished, and unforgettable.

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